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You know I went straight on tour after his death. I did not go to a psychiatrist, I did not go to a bereavement group, I did not properly grieve. And I found myself this summer, one night, telling someone about my grief in a way that I’d never told anybody. I realized, you know, after 11 years that I had not properly dealt with this, the fact that I was really in love with this person and he was such a narcissus that he did this crazy thing, and he really did it, you know? It’s not like you commit suicide and then you get to watch your own funeral like the fantasy goes as you’re doing it. You commit suicide and we don’t even know what happens you could be just dead.

You know I went straight on tour after his death. I did not go to a psychiatrist, I did not go to a bereavement group, I did not properly grieve. And I found myself this summer, one night, telling someone about my grief in a way that I’d never told anybody. I realized, you know, after 11 years that I had not properly dealt with this, the fact that I was really in love with this person and he was such a narcissus that he did this crazy thing, and he really did it, you know? It’s not like you commit suicide and then you get to watch your own funeral like the fantasy goes as you’re doing it. You commit suicide and we don’t even know what happens you could be just dead.

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nervousbreakdance:

There’s this really nice piece at underthegunreview.net by Jacob Tender that a friend forwarded me today. It’s about how important Fall Out Boy’s album “From Under the Cork Tree,” was to him. After reading it though, nostalgic and well-written as it was, I really found myself more depressed than…

i think i’m a little bit in love with you, but only if you’re a little bit in love with me - Lykke Li

I understand the point but i disagree. part of having a truly great friendship is being able to talk to you friends openly and honestly if they upset you. however, it is also important to be able to differentiate between an issue that is trivial and one that is not. it’s not about picking fights or swallowing pride, it’s about mutual respect and understanding. if i’m being an asshat i want to know about it. I dont want to be upsetting a friend and not know about it purely because they’re ‘too proud’ and were ‘trying to preserve a friendship’.

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therealmoki:

I could honestly find a logical flaw in every possible reason you have to be sad. Life is tough and you should learn to be strong and not care so much about the petty little shit that bothers you now. You are all young as fuck and want to waste these precious youthful years…

Part of me agrees but the and other disagrees. i am cynical about people claiming to have depression when as you said, they cant distinguish between that and being sad. i have little sympathy for folks claiming to have depression but have no issue in making that a topic of conversation all the time but refuse to take action. And yes, i have close friends/family who legitimately suffer from medically diagnosed depression and i see how it’s wrecked them. Which is why i cannot deal with people falsely claiming to have depression or self diagnosing. seriously, in the past 7 years every second person i met claimed to have depression. I acknowledge i have no medical background but i have seen real cases and i can recognise a faker.